Today’s culture is fascinated with watching the fruit of other people’s discipline while neglecting our own discipline. What do I mean by that? Take sports for example. We love to watch Dwyane Wade throw an alley-hoop to Lebron James. These two guys pour in hours at the gym each day. They are extremely disciplined and yet we can’t remember the last time we ran for twenty minutes. This also occurs in our spiritual lives.
Today’s Christian Young Men (I don’t consider myself too far removed) are fascinated with podcasts. We love sitting and listening to Matt Chandler or John Piper as the fruits of these men’s disciplines come alive. And all the awhile we are neglecting our own spiritual discipline. The truth is, most of us don’t even know what it looks like to cultivate a godly disciplined life. This no longer has to be true.
Following the popular Disciplines of A Godly Man, Kent and Carey Hughes have teamed up to write Disciplines of A Godly Young Man. The book is written to young men around the ages of 13-18 and has provided them with a tool to cultivate spiritual discipline.
Discipline is a sweaty exercise. It comes from work, hard grueling and testing work. Paul says in 1 Timothy 4:7, “train yourself for godliness”. The Hughes start their book discussing the importance of discipline, a Holy Sweat. This introduction provides a great framework for the rest of the book. Many of us are talented in an area of life and thus have natural advantages. Because of this, we expect it to translate to our spiritual life as well. On this, Hughes writes, “None of us can claim a natural spiritual advantage. In reality, we are all equally disadvantaged. None of us naturally seeks after God” (pg. 18). Thus, discipline in the Christian life is extremely important.
After the Introduction, the book is then broken up into five different areas of life. These consist of Relationships, Soul, Character, Ministry, and Grace. Under each of these headings consist further subheadings that dive deeper into the area of life. (for a full list of areas discussed, consult below)
The Hughes are clear and concise. The chapters are fast paced yet pack punch all the while remaining practical. At the close of each chapter there is a “food for thought” and “an application/response” time. The Hughes aren’t concerned with just teaching a theologically sound disciplined life. No, they want to see students living a theologically sound disciplined life. It is one thing to know what that life looks like and another thing to live that life. This perhaps was my greatest encouragement concerning the book.
Overall, I believe this book is extremely relevant to today’s young men. The Hughes are calling out young men and challenging them to become the man of discipline that God calls them to be. Young Men, be encouraged and challenged by this book.
My Rating 5/5 Stars
Book Outline
- Introduction – Discipline is Everything, Discipline for Godliness
- Relationships – Purity, Friendship
- Soul – Mind: Refusal, Mind: Filling, Devotion, Prayer
- Character – Tongue, Work, Perseverance
- Ministry – Church, Giving, Witness, Ministry
- Discipline – Grace
I received this book free from Crossway Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.








